crabbygirl reviewed Paying for it by Chester Brown
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3 stars
what an odd defence of prostitution and a person's choice of life habits. Chester takes takes us through his experiences with prostitutes with an honesty that is both admirable and uncomfortable. After I noticed a discrepancy in the timeline, I kept track of his encounters - chronologically - on a tally sheet, not unlike his own diaries of the events. Chester prefers young, pretty, thin, big breasted women who provide good sex while appearing to enjoy themselves. oh, and at a cheapest rate too. Is this any different for the majority of johns? it's no mistake that after visiting numerous prostitutes he had quick, 2 or 3 page chapters with women he didn't enjoy where he makes a mental note to give them a bad review; he's fully invested them as a commodity that can be summarily dismissed.
the appendix of the book is a standard push for the legalisation …
what an odd defence of prostitution and a person's choice of life habits. Chester takes takes us through his experiences with prostitutes with an honesty that is both admirable and uncomfortable. After I noticed a discrepancy in the timeline, I kept track of his encounters - chronologically - on a tally sheet, not unlike his own diaries of the events. Chester prefers young, pretty, thin, big breasted women who provide good sex while appearing to enjoy themselves. oh, and at a cheapest rate too. Is this any different for the majority of johns? it's no mistake that after visiting numerous prostitutes he had quick, 2 or 3 page chapters with women he didn't enjoy where he makes a mental note to give them a bad review; he's fully invested them as a commodity that can be summarily dismissed.
the appendix of the book is a standard push for the legalisation and normalisation of being paid to have sex throughout people's lifetimes, whether male or female, old or young, fat or thin, pretty or ugly. (please note that when this ideal world arrives, Chester will only chose one of those dualities every time.) the author posits that the current acceptance of being gay can be a blueprint for future acceptance of sex work (which explains to me why folks are lobbying for the red umbrella to be added to the pride flag). And there's the usual malarkey that consent can be purchased, and yet also renegotiated in the moment; a difficult juggle if the consent was already purchased. lastly, it is abundantly clear that sex trafficking was nowhere on Chester's radar when he started this project as he spends a lot of time in the Notes section reflecting on his conversations with various women who could, potentially, have been sex slaves. will it surprise you to know Chester was able to reassure himself every time that No, he did not engage in such a morally repugnant activity? of course not.