crabbygirl reviewed Good to a fault by Marina Endicott
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3 stars
it was a bit like alice munroe with the dreary moments of everyday life (which i like; i love alice monroe), but the characters seemed translucent: you only got into their heads for small glimpses. the rest, you were left to fill in the blanks with your own experiences and biases. it really upset me and i realized that (for myself anyway) there are unconscious expectations in everything we do. that there really are no selfless acts - even an anonymous generous act results in an inflated sense of self / sense of being a good person.
and that's just from the generous person's point of view. what about the person receiving this good deed? when and why do they stop seeing the person as good and useful and necessary...and start feeling entitled, and bitter, and feel no remorse at using them and hurting them? it's not just this book: …
it was a bit like alice munroe with the dreary moments of everyday life (which i like; i love alice monroe), but the characters seemed translucent: you only got into their heads for small glimpses. the rest, you were left to fill in the blanks with your own experiences and biases. it really upset me and i realized that (for myself anyway) there are unconscious expectations in everything we do. that there really are no selfless acts - even an anonymous generous act results in an inflated sense of self / sense of being a good person.
and that's just from the generous person's point of view. what about the person receiving this good deed? when and why do they stop seeing the person as good and useful and necessary...and start feeling entitled, and bitter, and feel no remorse at using them and hurting them? it's not just this book: it happens over & over again that people turn on the folks who loved & supported them through the worst times