Pornography is what it feels like when you think you have an object but really the object has you. It is therefore a quintessential expression of femaleness.[ . . . ] Whereas being on top means he's expected to "do all the work" in sex with women, pornography does all his desiring for him. [ . . . ] Like all men, Jon watches porn not to have power but to give it up.

— Females by Andrea Long Chu (Verso Pamphlets) (Page 39 - 42)