This book was really helpful for me, and I am listening to it over and over again. I think the words he is speaking are very wise, and they inspire me. I do see however how they can annoy other people, since it does sound condescending from time to time. I just let that slip and not touch me personally. Read this book when you are ready for it. When you're not ready for it, put it away, and take it back two years later.