A very easy and fast read, written for both skeptics and non-monogamous types. Coming from a polyamorous couple, one of which is a therapist, the book carries some weight and legitimacy. As someone who believes in open relationships, I found the progression in the book from self, to lovers, to community to be healthy steps for anyone looking to get the most out of their relationships; I haven't been able to find any reviews about the book that reveal any fundamental problems with the authors' opinions. The feel-good, flower child tone made me roll my eyes a few times, but this is what you get with most relationship books anyway.

I borrowed this copy. Didn't realize that there's a new 2009 2nd edition. I may have to get my own copy!